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Monday, January 8, 2024

Rising Above: Staying Positive When Criticism Tries to Dim Our Light



Hey there, amazing readers! Today, I wanted to address a topic that has been on my mind lately - the art of staying positive in the face of criticism and adversity. Life has a funny way of throwing curveballs at us when we least expect it, and sometimes those curveballs come in the form of people trying to bring us down or damage our lives. It's during these challenging times that our faith and resilience are truly put to the test.


Before I jump into my personal experience, let me introduce myself. My name is Roger A Sanchez Jr, and I am incredibly fortunate to have an extraordinary lady named Andrea by my side. We both share an immense love for each other and have faced countless obstacles together. Despite being deaf, we have always found solace in our unwavering faith and trust in each other.


Now, let's talk about the difficulties we encountered when people started to criticize and attempt to damage our lives. It's no secret that society can sometimes be judgemental and unsupportive, especially when it comes to individuals who are different from the norm. As someone who is deaf, I have personally faced my fair share of challenges and negative remarks.


But let me tell you, my friends, keeping the faith during these trying times can be incredibly tough. The words and actions of others can leave scars on our hearts and minds. It's easy to let their negativity seep into our souls, leading us down a path of self-doubt and despair. However, it's vital to remember that we hold the power to rise above these obstacles and retain our positivity.


Andrea and I have faced countless moments of doubt and fear, but we always managed to find our way back to what truly matters - our unwavering faith and love for each other. We refuse to let the opinions and actions of others define our lives. Instead, we choose to focus on the blessings and support that God has bestowed upon us.


So, my friends, how do we stay positive when people criticize and try to damage our lives? Here are a few valuable lessons that Andrea and I have learned along the way:


1. Surround Yourself with Positivity: It's crucial to surround ourselves with people who uplift and support us. Seek out family and friends who genuinely believe in you, and don't be afraid to distance yourself from those who bring negativity into your life.


2. Embrace Self-Love: Remember that your worth and value are not determined by the opinions of others. Embrace self-love and know that you are deserving of happiness, regardless of what others may say.


3. Focus on Your Core Beliefs: Stay true to your core beliefs and values, as they will guide you through challenging times. When you ground yourself in your faith, you become a force to be reckoned with, capable of withstanding any storm that comes your way.


4. Channel Your Energy Into Something Positive: Instead of dwelling on the negative words and actions of others, channel your energy into something positive. Pursue hobbies, volunteer, or engage in activities that bring you joy and allow you to grow as an individual.


5. Practice Gratitude: Count your blessings daily. Gratitude has a way of shifting our perspective from what is lacking to what is abundant in our lives. Focus on the good, and the negativity will lose its power over you.


In conclusion, my friends, remember that you are not alone when it comes to facing criticism or adversity. Andrea and I stand as living proof that, despite any challenges that come our way, we can choose to rise above them and stay positive. Hold on to your faith, surround yourself with love and support, and keep believing in yourself. God blesses us all, regardless of our circumstances.


Stay strong, stay positive, and keep the faith!


With love,

Roger A SanchezJr



Letting God Take the Wheel: A Journey of Faith and Perseverance



 I am Roger, and this is my story. Life hasn't always been easy for me. It has thrown unexpected challenges my way, testing my strength and faith. What happens when you are deaf and an amputee? Is it possible to find solace and hope in the midst of such adversity?


Since when I was an infant, I lost my hearing, making communication a constant uphill battle. And then, to add to my struggles, I lost my limb. It felt like a blow to my already wounded spirit. But instead of succumbing to anger and despair, I made a choice. I chose to let God take the wheel and lead me to my promised land. And standing by my side, supporting me every step of the way, is my pillar of strength, Andrea.


Life took an unexpected turn for me, shattering my dreams and bringing me face to face with unimaginable challenges. But I refused to let that define me. With a deep trust in God, I began to see life through a different lens. I realized that my disabilities were not limitations, but opportunities for transformation and growth. I focused on what I could accomplish with the support of my loved ones and my unyielding faith.


Andrea has been my rock, my constant companion throughout this journey. With her unwavering love and support, she has shown me that I am not alone in my struggles. She has become my voice in a world that often fails to hear me, bridging the gap between my silence and the rest of humanity. Together, we face life's trials and tribulations with courage and determination.


People often wonder how I find strength in my faith despite the obstacles I face. For me, it's about surrendering control and trusting in God's divine plan. I let go of my own desires and allow God to take the wheel. I find peace in knowing that I am not alone on this journey. Instead of questioning why I was dealt these hardships, I embrace the lessons and blessings that come along the way.


One of the most remarkable aspects of my story is my unwavering positivity. I refuse to let my disabilities define me. Instead, I use them to inspire others and spread a message of hope. My smile and kindness resonate with those I encounter, reminding them that faith can move mountains and overcome any obstacle.


Through this journey, I have come to understand that my promised land is not a physical place. It is a state of mind and heart where my spirit is free. It is where I can rise above my disabilities and live a life filled with purpose and joy. Together with Andrea, we navigate the challenges, always relying on our faith as our compass.


In a harsh and unforgiving world, my story serves as a beacon of hope. It reminds us that when we surrender control and let God take the wheel, miracles can truly happen. It is a testament to the power of faith, love, and the indomitable human spirit. And as I continue to let God lead me to my promised land, I inspire all those who cross my path to trust in God's plan and find strength in their own unique journeys.


So, let us all take a moment to reflect on my remarkable journey. May it inspire us to trust that even amidst life's challenges, God is always there, guiding us to our promised land.

DEAF ENTREPRENUER